How to do well tips if your child is struggling in school
So many thoughts can race through your mind when you find out that your child is not coping at school. Guilt, frustration and fear are all emotions that you may experience when you are first told that your son or daughter is not progressing as expected.
But don’t immediately jump to playing out the worst case scenario in your head!
Being told that there is a problem can be a positive thing. It means that your child’s teacher has identified that your child needs extra support, meaning you can begin to take the necessary steps to tackle and overcome your child’s difficulties at school. We have come up with some fantastic ways that you can help to make sure your child achieves their potential.
Work together with your child’s teacher
One of the best things about being told that your child is struggling is that their teacher has noticed the issue. In a large class it’s easy for students having problems to slip through the cracks, often not being picked up until later in their educational journey. Your child’s teacher has taken the first and most important step in identifying that extra support is needed. Working together with the teacher to develop a plan of how to best help them is the first step to improving their outcomes. Ask the teacher what you can do at home to help your child in the area which they are struggling in, and be open to their suggestions. For example, if reading is causing problems for your child, the teacher may provide you with games or activities to do with them to help improve their skills in the area. If maths is an issue there may be some real-life tasks that the teacher can suggest including your child in at home, such as counting their toys, helping with measuring for recipes or working out a budget for a big purchase. Supporting your child doesn’t have to be difficult!
Find a tutor
One of the most tried and tested ways of helping a child struggling with school is to get a tutor to help. My Web Tutor has a range of skilled online tutors that are ready to help your child to overcome their difficulties and feel confident at school again. Our tutors provide flexible one-on-one real time tutoring, making it easy to find a time which suits your busy schedule. Check out quality Online Tutors
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Set them up for success at home
Don’t underestimate the importance of a solid routine at home. By getting your child into a sound routine with little variation each day, you will improve success through children and teenagers becoming familiar with what is expected of them.
An example of such a routine could look something like this:
4:00 - 4:30 Arrive home: Rest and snack
4:30 - 5:00 Homework (longer for Upper Primary and Secondary)
5:00 - 5:15 Shower
5:15 - 6:00 Chores/Free time
6:00 - 7:00 Dinner
7:00 - 8:00 Free time
While your child may resist at first, they will adapt over time, and consequently feel more secure in knowing exactly what they need to do and when, so persevere even when it is difficult.
We hope that these ideas to support your child are useful. Remember - with your love and support your child will be back on track in no time!